[Tuesday, March 18, 2008]

6:08 PM

ahh!!! soo fed up....

and now blogger made it worse...>.<

wrote a long update a few minutes ago..and by long...i mean..

LONG!!

gahh...wadeva...anythin...haahaa...

kae...syiok sendiri...

and oh....for those guys who kept bugging me bout this question...

I DONT ASK GIRLS FOR STEAD!!

neither have i done that and never will(wonder till when it will last)...had nv done all that^^

i'll just let tha girls do all tha work...muahaha...XD

nununu..im kiddin...

y'all wanna know tha reason whyyy?

well.....

THATS JUST ME.

u may say that im not a man....

suit urself...

BUT!

i dont get it wiv u guys...its like...

girl had just transferred to her new school...on her first day of school...boy saw girl for tha first time and like her....so aft a few days....boy ask girl for stead....and girl accept....

just aft a few days stead-ing or wadeva tha word is...on tha girl's msn nick....

she wrote "oooohhh...i love my hubby sooo much...he's tha one for me...love him!" and all that kindda mushy stuff...

soo...heres a question for u guys(mainly those in tha similar situation)...

does tha girl REALLY love tha boy??...its like...hes a total stranger to u..and only recently known him..and "out of tha purple" u say u love him...o.O

i mean...cmon lah........

aft being steady wiv boy for a week....boy started to ignore/neglected girl....when girl realise that...girl ignore/neglected boy back...and they ignore/neglected each other for a few daes....

next dae...they quarrel....

whyy did tha girl ignore/neglected back to tha boy??...tha girl may be upset bout it...but dat doesnt mean she hadda revenge on tha boy...tha girl din know why tha boy did that to her...she din know his intention of doing that....and yet she took revenge by doin tha same thing...its tha same as accusing someone without any proof...tha boy could have been in some sort of trouble...and he din wanna let tha girl get involved in his matters....

if tha guy did somethin that somehow tha girl got upset over....that does not mean he did it intentionally..it could be unintentional...or....it could be that his intention is good but tha results turn out not to be what he expected...

they broke up aft they quarrelled...tha next week...another guy ask girl for stead and again..girl accepted...and again....her msn nick was like before wiv all that mushy stuff bout her new bf...

nice huh?....aft a week of breakup...she can easily accepts another guy who asked her for stead... wasnt she feelin any hurt at all....? wasnt she scared that her new bf would break her heart again....? if girl had known guy for 7 years n reali love guy...but suddenly guy broke up wiv girl....and girl got a new bf a few weeks later....how can she easilly accepts another aft 7 years of havin a guy that suddenly broke up with her....? and still...girl can say that she loves her new bf aft just a few days of stead-ing.....

girl broke up wiv guy...and boy asked girl to be back wiv him...patch up... and girl accept...

realli...i hav no comments bout tha girl....

so yea...u guessed it....boy cheated on girl...and they broke up...girl got a new bf...and boy got himself a new gf...aft a month or so....both break up wiv their bf/gf...and in the end...boy patch up with girl again...and they broke up....they got themselves brand new bf/gf...and tha cycle repeats again and again and again....

do i realli hav to giv comments bout this....?u guys should have known....mayb tha boy and girl are realli meant for each other...havin tha same mindset...haha..

okok...tha next one is a diff story...

girl like boy....and girl finally told him bout her feelings towards him....and girl n boy started chatting...aft a while they stopped chattin...and aft a few daes...boy found out that girl had jus gotten a bf....

when tha girl admit to boy...does she realli meant it....? or does she onli need someone to spread her love to untill another guy ask her for stead...?does it mean tha girl was just using tha boy as a substitute...?

well...u guys think bout it...feel free to post ur comments..i dun mind....this are some of the reasons i dont ask girls for stead....well...all of these situations arnt realli just referrin to just girls...im referrin to both of tha gender...u could just swap tha gender in tha situations if u wanna....and yea....a lil part of this situation is referring to YOU! u know who u are...=) hope u can find which one...

i'll post others if i can crack my brain to find more...cuz some of it....kindda afraid to post it here..for sure im gonna be dead if i do...haha...cuz i know "u" are readin my blog...

well...have y'all realised...?most of e relationships u had...would start from a person who ask for stead...be it a girl or a boy...

i mean...couldnt we jus get to know tha person BETTER n show him/her that u love him/her...

if u hang out with someone for a very long time...u n that someone known each other very well...u n that someone know each other secrets...even tha darkest ones...

u love him/her...and when tha someone realised that u love him/her....he/she would accept that fact n hint u with stuff...he/she will hang out with u more than he/she usualli do with u...

And...aft some time...both of u would surely realised that both of u love each other...and u guys can get on with tha flow...and be in a BGR without having either one of u to ask for stead...isnt this much better...? though it may be time-consuming...it would surely prove how trustworty that partner of urs is when u guys finally accepted each other's love without one askin for stead...

have u ever watched a movie...whereby...tha guy n girl was trapped by a serial killer in a locked warehouse...both of em tried to work their way out for a few days but to no avail...then suddenly tha serial killer showed up and tried to kill the girl...tha guy saved tha girl and killed the serial killer..then the guy found tha keys inside the pocket of the serial killer and unlock tha warehouse...

when both of em finally got out of tha warehouse...they would kiss...smooch and all those stuff...and in tha middle of that...tha guy suddenly ask the girl..."Will you be my stead?"...

have u ever watched a movie like that...?! haha...i think not...almost all of it would end like this....

both of em smooch and stuff...and aft that they hang out and well...got on to a relationship.....

right...?

hahaha..i wonder who would want to read all these crap...i had nv found anyone who hav tha same mindset as mine....

if you are one of em...well...thats cool...

if u disagree with all my crap here...then its cool..thats ur life..aint mine..

_Bleeding heart sheds no tear' ;